BlogBiffo
Classic - I now have fights on my blog.
I’ll just explain some things to people who read this blog. I usually leave names out of my entries to preserve a person’s privacy. My thoughts are my own, and so that I don’t draw attention to others, so they wil be ID’d I never actually use names- however what if i make all of this up? and that these people are figments of my imagination!!?. I haven’t this time - they’re all real - sometimes a little .. too real if you know what I mean.
I understand I may have failed my duty as a friend to some people, said some things that perhaps should not have been said - but I won’t take them back - they are out there in the world. However, that does not invalidate the anger I felt when I had to listen to a close friend in alot of pain because of another friend. I dare anyone who isn’t a true friend not to get angry when they see someone they care about hurt. I can’t fix her, I can’t erase the pain, I regret telling her that I thought he was a nice guy and she should go along and enjoy the moment. Who wouldn’t think that it was wonderful to see two people she cared about get together?
So what’s my lesson..
Well as one person said to me - and no it wasn’t raina - she was glad that someone told her the truth. The silence from everyone else must have been deafening. Problem with gossip is that it’s done behind the back, in whispers and looks - and on IRC its worse. I probably participated in it when I shouldn’t have - but *shrug* that’s human nature and no one is perfect. Next time I’ll just keep my mouth shut and say nothing, and just freeze the offending assholes out of my life