issues
How weird that my sister and I were talking about our family history with domestic violence and alcoholism and then I found out that she moved out and left her boyfriend yesterday, and the reason she did, was because he hit her a few times. The bruise on her leg is very nasty looking where he shoved her into a cabinet.
On Sunday morning said to her, “either get used to it, or fuck off.” So in her words, she “fucked off”. After she told him she was leaving, he reversed his car into hers and put a hole in her radiator. He also tried to get her into additional debt, and put bills in her surname. Luckily, there’s no such person and she won’t have to pay. I feel sorry for Western Power tho.
What makes a man become violent towards a woman? What do they think? What makes anyone violent to a person they are supposed to love and care for? I have to wonder if it’s just one of those things, but how hard is it to find one of nature’s nice guys who respect women?
I applied for the unit in Rivervale and handed over the rest of the application, and I hear from them on Wednesday. I have an offer for a microwave and dryer! *yes!* now all I need is a washing machine and fridge, and that’s all my white goods taken care of. I remember when I first moved out of home, I had nothing and used to wash my clothes in the laundry sink.
I’m almost starting again from scratch. I think if I was materialistic, i’d be quite upset about it. M and I have accumulated alot of stuff together. It’s all over now I guess. weird.